Puppy starts to sit

We are now 2 weeks into puppy dogfatherhood and dogmotherhood. This has been a tough two weeks. Not only physically with the exhaustion from running around after a nippy demon that pees and poops everywhere. But also emotionally because under the physical exhaustion it’s hard to stay positive and not get wound up with the puppy and each other.

It is great fun playing with a puppy when they are playing nicely and he is super cute but we have also considered giving him back. That’s in those moments it’s usually because we are exhausted and need a break and it’s not something we seriously consider. Just read this and be warned that if you are considering taking on a new puppy it is a lot of work. Even for us who think we knew what we were getting into we have been surprised at the amount of work it has been.

But work does not equal bad. So by putting in the work now we will hopefully end up with a well-mannered and enjoyable dog in the years to come. I think I also should have invested in some dog treat companies because I suspect will be pushing up the share price of them all by the number we have been getting through.

Of course the most basic and easy commands to give a dog is to sit. It is very rewarding to have taken this bundle of chaos and managed to plant his ass to the ground for a moment or two with a simple command. It is very useful and a good start. But now we must embark on a full regime training games, commands actions and techniques that we have never had to think about before in any great detail. 

If his parents are anything to go by he is going to be a big dog. Akita’s are powerful and they are loyal and guarding. Getting the training wrong or training the wrong behaviour into him abnormally could result in quite a scary dog to handle. So we are taking as much advice as we can from friends and professionals alike by employing a trainer. She has given us some games to play and techniques to follow to hopefully promote the correct behaviour so we shall see how we get on. But both of us sometimes feel quite overwhelmed and worried that if we do something wrong we’re going to end up with a powerful and potentially dangerous dog. Of course, everyone we have spoken to has said because we are worried about this, we will train him seriously so that this does not happen. It’s reassuring that people have faith in us even when we are feeling quite low like we will not be able to do it.

So far the commands we have managed fairly reliably are:

Sit – pretty straight forward. Can be just a hand signal single index finger pointing up.

Down – from sitting he lays down. Point down and run finger along the ground away from him

Here – with a point to come to a specific location either as recall or manoeuvering.

Ah! – loud noise to get attention and prevent from doing something like eating sticks, mud, blankets etc.

We’re currently working on these commands which are taking a little longer.

Daito – his name which should get his attention but it’s not very successful at the moment.

On – which will be a little useful in the future but mainly being used as the opposite to…

Off – to get off something like the sofa or a rug.

Nice – as a calming acknowledgement of something he has noticed. This is one of the games given to us by the trainer so that in the future when he notices something, it is thought of positively because we always say nice and give him a treat. But also because his natural instinct is to notice things and we want him to be able to disengage from that and return to giving us attention to decide how to deal with what he has noticed.

… This blog entry was never finished so I just published where I got up to! – Clearly I was too tired haha!

Puppy Arrives

Today we go and collect the newest addition to the Shawtell household; a little puppy Akita I’m naming Daito. 

We have been talking about a new big dog for ages, ever since our beloved Haku passed. He was such a lovely boy, the house just hasn’t been the same without him. Kayto too has been missing the interaction and getting slower without the stimulus.

Having never had my own dog, I’m very keen to take on the challenge. Aimi had Kayto and Haku when we met and of course I’ve had an influence on them but really they are her dogs. She’s so worked so hard training them, they are perfect dogs for us and really well behaved for what we want to do. Giving Daito the correct training is going to be so much easier with her help. Even still, I know it’s going to be a lot of work but I want to do it to learn in depth what its like.

I had been talking about getting a dog for xmas. Partially because i know we will be much better parents than any fuckwit who wants a dog for xmas. So removing one from the market at that time will be almost an act of charity. But also because I’ve been forward planning the work I’ve got in my future and that looked like a “good time” to take on the extra responsibility. 

But really… when is a good time? There is always something going on, especially you guys reading will know I’ve always got something going on. I rarely sit around with nothing to do so there really isn’t a good time, I’ll just have to deal with the changes needed in life as they happen.

Aimi is great at cutting thru this and just getting stuff done. I like to take my time and think about things for a while before taking action, but sometimes that turns into analysis-paralysis. She just gets on with it, so booked us in to see some Akita puppies.

We are choosing an Akita again because from the research and experience we have had, they fit in perfectly to our lifestyle, personalities and check the health boxes we want. They are active and can go a long way but they are still quite independent and don’t mind being quiet. We wanted a big dog because we miss Haku coming up and putting his chin on your knee. And they’re quite intelligent even if they are quite stubborn. But then that seems to be a personality trait I enjoy having married Aimi…

Of course as soon as we had seen the puppies we were trying to choose our favourite one and it didn’t take us long to pick. He’s mostly black with stripes of white at each end and a cute little black spot on his excited little tail. He seemed to be the most energetic of the bunch and inquisitive which, with any luck speaks to his temperament… but he’s only 8 weeks old so time will tell.

Paperwork done and into the car we went, him sitting on my lap. I’m sitting in the back, with space beside me so if Daito prefers space he has it. I’ve got a few towels, with one over my knees, just in case he wees. Of course, in a new place, new sounds, smells, people and movement, it was bound to happen. But that’s ok, solids would have been harder for me to deal with. Being that cooped up with poop would have made me gag.

Arriving home we had it all set up and ready to go. Crate, collars, food, more toys ( even tho kayto had a whole box full he never touches! ). Now the real work begins. I hope we can do it!